I hope this blog post finds you and your family well, but I also know that life is not perfect, even here in December. The television commercials display the perfect happy family, perfect romance and the perfect gift under the tree, which is a brand new car! Hee, Hee! I asked my husband, the other night, how many people actually get a new car for Christmas? I am thrilled for you, if you are one of those people! When we strip all of the “stuff” away, I ask you “What are the things that are most important to you?”
The reason this question is so important this time of year, is that we have the desire for the Holidays to look a certain way. We desire quality time with family. We desire to catch up with friends that are only in town this time of year. We desire to keep God as the focus of the season. How is it that we get to the end of another year and feel a little sad because another Holiday Season flew past and is gone?
I know one of the biggest things that gets me off track each year, are the expectations of others. It is great that so many people want us to be a part of their event, but we have a choice, fill our time with what others want us to do, or fill our time with what is most important to us. I, by no means, want us to be disrespectful to others, I simply don’t want us to fill our time with expectations of others and miss out on what is most important to us, again.
While you are driving home within the next day, since that might be the only quiet time you have in your day, think about who and what is most important to you. Ask yourself if you have prioritized quality time with them this Holiday Season. Think about the obligations and expectations that you have agreed to that might keep you from your most important people and things.
Decide to have an amazing Holiday Season. It’s up to you. Someone is going to get your time and someone will not. You get to decide who those people are.
I wish you the absolute best Christmas and New Year!